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Stories
I am reading one of Graham Norton's memoirs. In the introduction he talks about how we are our stories. We don't live in a list of...
franadivich
Jan 6, 20232 min read


Cancer: My Part in its Downfall by Colm Toibin
I bought Colm Toibin's book A Guest at the Feast because I wanted to read his essay about his cancer diagnosis and treatment. Cancer: My...
franadivich
Jan 1, 20235 min read


Goals for 2023
I am a goal setter. I don't have a 5 year plan but I always have goals, and when I achieve them, I get new ones. This year I have worked...
franadivich
Dec 31, 20223 min read


But you’re OK now?
I can feel the awkwardness when I bang into some people. I can read their minds "Oh my God, it's her. Is she dying?" I know people are...
franadivich
Dec 29, 20223 min read


Feeling almost pretty 💅
One of the greatest discoveries of my adult life was the nail technician. I grew up a terrible nail biter and finding acrylic nails was...
franadivich
Dec 3, 20223 min read


Flower of Scotland
Well goodness me. Time sure does fly when you are feeling well! For those of you concerned because of my lengthy silence, please don't...
franadivich
Oct 16, 20226 min read


Beach Break
I am having a break at the beach. It is beautiful here and very relaxing. I was hoping I’d be feeling magnificent, but alas I think I am...
franadivich
Jul 12, 20223 min read


Thunderstruck
I confess that I have a treatment anthem. I listen to ACDC Thunderstruck turned up really LOUD and imagine smiting any stray cancer...
franadivich
May 25, 20223 min read


Golden
Today is a big day. Today marks 12 months since my mastectomy. Today I was out of town for work, looking at a building that allegedly...
franadivich
May 12, 20223 min read


Stayin’ Alive
When I was my daughter’s age I began to get very anxious about global thermonuclear war. I remember choosing it as a topic for a science...
franadivich
Mar 21, 20225 min read


Boli me duša
My soul hurts. It is a very Slavic concept. In Ukrainian “iмоя душа болить”. In Croatian “boli me dusa”. Throughout history much Slav...
franadivich
Mar 12, 20222 min read


Guess who’s back?
Guess who's back Back again Frana’s back Tell a friend Guess who's back, guess who's back Guess who's back, guess who's back Guess who's...
franadivich
Feb 1, 20228 min read


And Just Like That…
WT actual F? Just when I might have liked Big…when he had settled down, was happy, secure and committed…just like that…he’s dead? Good...
franadivich
Jan 22, 20224 min read


Sabre
Ever since I was a little girl I have had an intense love of horses. My favourite TV shows were Follyfoot and Black Beauty. I read the...
franadivich
Dec 14, 20212 min read


Wanna go back in?
Sorry for my month long absence. I have been busy improving every day. I have decided to do stuff that makes me happy while I recover...
franadivich
Dec 4, 20213 min read


Burn baby burn 🔥 (Shock and awe part 3)
I have started my 15 working days of radiation treatment so this post has a theme song by The Trammps https://youtu.be/A_sY2rjxq6M (more...
franadivich
Oct 31, 20217 min read


Goodbye Taxotere and Carboplatin
Chemotherapy is over! It has me looking forward. I know I still have a lot to go through - but I’m in recovery mode now. I’ll start feeling better, not worse (well, until I have reconstructive surgery, but I’m not in an enormous hurry for that). It is spring. I love spring. I love the feeling of renewal, the longer days, the smell of the rain and the warming earth, the colour green and flowers. I’ve been showered in congratulatory flowers. I have flowers surrounding me both i
franadivich
Oct 25, 20216 min read


“That’s what the Nazis said!”
At the beginning of this journey the endless time stretching out ahead of me with little to do, filled me with horror. I had lived such a...
franadivich
Oct 2, 20210 min read


A plague o’ both your houses (Auckland & Wellington)
What interesting plague infected times we live in. We were plunged into alert level 4 (our strictest lockdown conditions) on 17 August...
franadivich
Sep 22, 20210 min read


A few of my favourite things (for getting through chemotherapy)
No raindrops on roses nor whiskers on kittens No bright copper kettles nor warm woollen mittens Some might come in brown paper packages...
franadivich
Aug 28, 20214 min read
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