It’s not easy being green
My favourite TV programme as a small child was Sesame Street. My favourite character was Kermit the Frog. I know exactly why Miss Piggy...
Oncology (Shock and Awe Part 2)
This year I had intended to be in the South of France, Northern Italy and Croatia about now celebrating a significant birthday. A global...
Too much
Many, many years ago, when I was single and fancy free, I was accosted by my ex’s current girlfriend in a gym changing room. She had...
Mortal terror
By the time I publish this I will be 5 weeks post surgery. My operation was about 6 hours long and I went home the next morning. I took...
A farewell to breasts
This title is supposed to be a tilt to Hemingway but I accept it is a bit clumsy. Fortunately I still have one (spectacular, reduced)...
Feeling all the feels
Nearly 20 years ago I consulted a clinical psychologist and was under his care for about 6 months. I had been under huge pressure and...
Safe, secure and loved
In many respects my childhood was typical of most kiwis. I walked to school, played outside on my bike until it was dark and wandered the...
Operation (Shock & Awe Part 1)
Shock and awe (technically known as rapid dominance) is a tactic based on the use of overwhelming girl power and spectacular displays of...
The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry
I know professionally that if you are in a fight the road is windy, you need to be smarter than your opponent, strategic, clear thinking...
Start spreading the news
The first phone call I received on 19 April was from Mercy Radiography wanting to book me in for a MRI scan on 23 April. “Hmmm“ thought...
In the beginning
I remember watching Prince Phillip’s funeral on 17 April and discussing with Bill whether it was odd to choreograph your own farewell...













