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Half way is not all the way, but it is better than no way
I almost didn’t make it to my third round of chemo. Whilst taking my drugs one hour pre chemo, I dropped one of the pills down the side...
franadivich
Aug 11, 20215 min read


Ding Ding, Round 2
I have a chart on my kitchen wall with 1- 6 written on it. Those numbers represent my 6 rounds of chemotherapy. I have crossed off 1 and...
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Aug 3, 20215 min read


In order to truly know happiness, you must know sadness
On 24 July 2001 my heart broke. It has never properly healed. It has a great, big Natasha shaped hole in it. Twenty years ago, my...
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Jul 15, 20215 min read


It’s not easy being green
My favourite TV programme as a small child was Sesame Street. My favourite character was Kermit the Frog. I know exactly why Miss Piggy...
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Jul 7, 20213 min read


Oncology (Shock and Awe Part 2)
This year I had intended to be in the South of France, Northern Italy and Croatia about now celebrating a significant birthday. A global...
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Jun 26, 20217 min read


Too much
Many, many years ago, when I was single and fancy free, I was accosted by my ex’s current girlfriend in a gym changing room. She had...
franadivich
Jun 21, 20215 min read


Mortal terror
By the time I publish this I will be 5 weeks post surgery. My operation was about 6 hours long and I went home the next morning. I took...
franadivich
Jun 19, 20217 min read


A farewell to breasts
This title is supposed to be a tilt to Hemingway but I accept it is a bit clumsy. Fortunately I still have one (spectacular, reduced)...
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Jun 14, 20214 min read


Feeling all the feels
Nearly 20 years ago I consulted a clinical psychologist and was under his care for about 6 months. I had been under huge pressure and...
franadivich
Jun 10, 20213 min read


Safe, secure and loved
In many respects my childhood was typical of most kiwis. I walked to school, played outside on my bike until it was dark and wandered the...
franadivich
Jun 10, 20212 min read


Operation (Shock & Awe Part 1)
Shock and awe (technically known as rapid dominance) is a tactic based on the use of overwhelming girl power and spectacular displays of...
franadivich
Jun 9, 20216 min read


The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry
I know professionally that if you are in a fight the road is windy, you need to be smarter than your opponent, strategic, clear thinking...
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Jun 7, 20217 min read


Start spreading the news
The first phone call I received on 19 April was from Mercy Radiography wanting to book me in for a MRI scan on 23 April. “Hmmm“ thought...
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Jun 7, 20212 min read


In the beginning
I remember watching Prince Phillip’s funeral on 17 April and discussing with Bill whether it was odd to choreograph your own farewell...
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Jun 6, 20214 min read
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